H has been really sick since yesterday, texted me saying he is going home early as he is sick, I did not respond back, he still did everything with the kids and pulled his weight yesterday night and this morning. I saw him taking meds and he kept saying to D3 he is ill but I never asked him how he was doing or how I can help. I know this is cold, if I ask about his health or say hope he feels better will it be pursuit?
Arsh, my husband was sick a few months ago and I said I hope he feels better. I didn't do anything special for him. It wouldn't hurt to tell your husband you hope he gets well soon. A little sign of good will doesn't seem to be the same as pursuing.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
arsh, W and I lived together for almost a year after DB. I really think that once he moves out, it will be easier for you. It will require adjustment, no doubt, but when you no longer have to walk around his stuff in the house, and you don't have to worry about him trying to start an argument at any time, you will feel like a weight has lifted.
I don't think moving quickly is necessarily good, but if it doesn't move quickly, I can tell you that limbo [censored], and makes it hard to detach.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
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