Advice Needed To Deal With WW - Part 3

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This works for me because I like to link everything together. I don't like loose ends. I dig deep into things. And there is no way to do this without questioning your own values. You cannot judge her behavior as right or wrong without questioning your own behavior, how you would have behaved in a similar situation, etc. Also when you ask yourself what could have pushed her away, you must admit your flaws and your mistakes. And you must accept them. And so on. You get my point?

But you need to remind yourself that you need to be strong, and you need to stay active and positive as much as you can. This is why this forum is great to share your thoughts and your feelings and to get advise when you start to drift the wrong way (which happens a lot to me). People here will support you, but they are not shy telling you what you are doing wrong

I think a big part of the process of healing and moving on is definitely admitting one's own flaws. Especially when analyzing the sitch. It has definitely helped me so far to really figure out a lot of myself that needed improving regardless of what happens with my sitch.

I've found this forum invaluable the last few months for helping me in handling my sitch, especially when they are telling you what you are doing wrong. lol