Husband left for the second time - 5

[Vanilla]

Question is: Are we, LBSs, immune from such immature behaviors? Or do we just think we are? Could this have been us? And how do we protect ourselves from ever being that Wayward person? How do we make sure we never hurt someone the way our WS hurt us and hurt their children?

The majority of LBS that learn and use DB properly are ADULTS who love their kids, stable and marching forwards.

Not only that but they get into new R with adults.

Using DB and shifting makes waywardism remote. So remote I haven't seen it in 4 years here, not in an LBS who genuinely DB. Because DB is for the self.

We work on us. BTW I was a WAW from a WH.

So put your mind at rest, your brain won't go wayward. In fact the very thought of it will make you wanna puke.


Clean question-though why are you concerned?
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