Im sorry pal, but that makes uncomfortable reading that.
There is a reason why I messaged you earlier and a reason that most people after your last post are saying you look weak and needy.
I advised not to do things to get a reaction - so you ask "do you have happy memories of being in here??" - seriously are you really that bothered? She is leaving you.
In reality, the question is asked because it would be a straw to grab at if she says... "yes i have some lovely memories" - then you get a little bit of hope and the spiral of nonsense continues. Life is short pal - stop wasting it trying to avoid the pain. let her go. If its meant to be then she will come back. But you wont let her go because your scared she wont come back. Let it go and become a better version of you and you might surprise yourself.
If you met someone who quite clearly didn't want to be with you.. would you try the tactics you are using on your wife now? - if you did they would be out the door like a flash. The only reason you are doing it is because you think she is going to snap out of this if you follow what you read on here.
Our job is to help you get your life in gear.
Its important you listen to what you are being told if you want your situation to improve. This is NOT going to be pretty, it will take a long time, but there is a way to move to a better place than you are now.. with or without a partner.
