You speak of Sandi'so rules as if they were carved into stone and passed down to Moses. They are certainly sage advice from a wise and experienced person but I doubt that they are infallible.
Can you explain to me, a neophyte, what it is to detach fully, to drop the rope, without giving up hope. It certainly seems to me that delusional hope is the rope that I and so many others are drowning ourselves with.
In terms of divorce. I am a full 8 plus months away from even being able to file. It's just not an option in my state.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
