Well explained Steve- this may also be why WAW/WW are so far ahead in the grieving process. While they have had 2 years to process and grieve -we are left behind to pick up pieces. Just my 2 cents.
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18