Nothing good or new (this is starting to seem like a duet. . .).
I still wonder how to think about/deal with The Big Problem -- that is, that the Cat thinks that "all" of the problems stem from our sexual drought/change. That is, he just can't let it go -- if I complain about anything, he snaps back with "Why should you get X; I don't get what I want."
I know, don't complain! I'm trying a lot not to, and I'm getting better at taking care of me. But I did ask him the other night what he thought our marriage would look like NOW had that not happened. He hasn't answered yet, but I thought it might be revealing.
Do you think I can get any clues for behavior from his answer?
