Detaching / Dbing... Can I get to Piecing?

[hongaku]

Did, I know where you're at with the pain and sorrow, that emptiness and longing. I'm there, too. Don't send that text - you're erasing it because you know deep down that it's the wrong move. Patience and DB, just keep it up. Patience is really hard for me. It's hard for me to find things to keep myself busy and focused on my GAL goals in my current situation. I go into panic mode frequently and it's hard to think about anything else but her and my kids and the sitch. It's really a positive sign that she wants to spend some time with you, don't mess it up by getting ahead of her feelings and trying to do too much too soon. You have to go at her pace. You really do. It takes patience and going slowly. You don't want her to feel that you're pressuring her. Remember in DR the LRT section on when the spouse starts showing interest again - take things slowly and do not get overly enthusiastic. Be patient. There is no need to rush! Re-read that part of DR over and over. Make time your ally!