I really don't know OrangeK. You could try saying "no, he doesn't act like with me either" and leave it at that.
But he does, and I dont want to lie about my sons behavior or well being, but if i say what I see to be the case "He seems to have bad days after nights he has slept with you, and his behavior backslides everytime i get him back from you" Itll just start a fight, but its the damn truth, even the Daycare said so to me yesterday.
Originally Posted by NicoleR
Usually when little kids act bad it's because they need more love, connection, boundaries, and quality time with their parents.
He talks about being bored with her, that she doesnt play or read to him anymore. She just keeps him alongside her like an accessory, or pawns him off on her mother. [/quote]
Originally Posted by NicoleR
You can only offer that when he's with you and hope for the best when he's not. Perhaps you can buy some parenting books and send them with your son to your wife and say "I read these books and thought they might be helpful to you too." There's one called "No Drama Discipline" that might be useful.
Thats not a bad plan. I doubt she would read them, but at least it wouldnt HURT.
Also, i sent the prizes he wont at the arcade over the weekend to her house with him, as he was super attached to them, and proud of them. They didnt come back home with him.
She would rather bogart his favorite things and keep them at her house like a dragons hoard so all his favortie things are there.
Thankfully his favorite things a REALLY stuff like "Anoo (Canoe) rides with Dada and Uncle" And going out on "Big Uncles Big Boat", fun with our dogs, and story time with Aunty and Dada. Not things she can take home with her.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
