Agreed. You know my ex married an Asian girl 19 years younger than him. I'm sure he enjoyed the novelty at first of this girlish young thing looking up to him. But I'd bet dollars to donuts he misses my smarts, sense of humor, and extreme capableness in a crisis. And while their age difference didn't seem so bad when she was 32 and he was 51, who knows if she'll still want him when he's 80 and she's a youthful 61? I know I sure as heck wouldn't be dating an 80 year old right now.