Jim, I had meant to respond to this. I don't understand it. Why would your wife need to break into your house? If you offered for her to take that address book I don't see why she'd need to climb through a window in the basement to get it....or lay in your bed! Where does the divorce currently stand? I wonder what she's thinking about that made her do this. That doesn't seem like something a mentally healthy person would do. Plus you don't know what else she was spying on or trying to find. I'm sure she won't steal from you or do anything like that, but still, that doesn't make sense. I did enter our house one time and took a quick look around in January but I used the key and I didn't lay in the bed or search through my husband's stuff. Perhaps it's best just to leave it be, but maybe a window lock isn't a bad idea!