actions and attitudes mean more than words. My priest was giving me a lot of honest feedback last night and it was good to hear. I felt stronger afterwords. I think W picks up on that.
W called while I was on my way to meet him and was like "do you want to skip that and come hang out/talk to me". I said no, but maybe after that we can talk.
We got food and talked, the truth made her cry a lot. Oh well, it had that effect on me but I got over/used to it a while back.
Got home and talked more, then I told her that I don't mind talking to her but I have things I need too but that I was going to bed.
She came in the MBR and said she wanted to sleep in there. I said "are you mine, or someone else's"? She didn't want to answer so I said there's your answer, go sleep in the other bedroom.
This morning she comes in the MBR and wants to "try" and "work on us". I didn't cave so easily this time and said we need to do counseling, you need to be prepared to face my friends and family, there's going to be a lot of work and are you ready for all that. Are you going to call me later today and back out?
Well now, here we are...I guess I can go reread the DB chapters for people who aren't in the LRT, right? Or how do I handle from here?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
