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[jaylove]

You are not going to be able to stop her from moving out, so let her go.

What are your 180's, stop trying to control her.

So money is tight - I have been there.
What are you going to do about that?

If you are going to have your kids 50/50 whats that going to look like?
How are you going to be the BEST DAD that you can be?

I really need to think carefully about my 180’s
I’m considering borrowing some money somehow to buy a Prius in order to do Uber work. I’ve been a musician for twenty years but after my cancer x 3 I’ve built up debts and no one buys CDs anymore, so I need to supplement my income and Uber is flexible enough that I can still work as a musican too.

I have my mother and brother close by who support me with children sometimes whereas my wife has no readily available family- 50-50 custody will mean when I have the kids they will be with me or close family, when with my wife they will have childcare.

Thanks Cadet