Wrote a very long, heartfelt, insightful post. It disappeared so I'm just going to summarize which will probably delight all of you that it won't be so long!

Boils down to what ALL of you have been telling me from day 1. Patience and time are the key. Do not react, overreact, plan, plot, or do anything outside of DB'ing. You will not be perfect. You will make mistakes. You cannot lose your resolve. Your W is very confused, scared and unsure about her future. I can only control my actions.

Shame the post disappeared, it was really good. I love that I was just able to get it out, write the thoughts down though.

Today is another day. Sun is shining and at present, my family is still "together" in the same home.

M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18