Thank you so much for this. The most difficult part now is detaching and keeping cool about the situation with him. At the moment I am just trying to get out of the house as much as possible. It is something I haven't done before and a part of me worries that I might push him away by doing so. I am staying at work until about 6 pm today and then at 8 pm I am going out for a dinner with a friend. So I will be home for about an hour or so... in that hour I am pretending to be happy, confident and chatty. It is so difficult! But at least I am doing something entirely different than before... hpefully the results will come.
W34 H61 M1 T3 June-H said he wants divorce but hasn't filed. Living and sleeping in the same bed, no intimacy from H side for last 12 months.
