I can sense at this stage you are looking for an answer.. no carefully worded answers will help at this stage I am afraid.
You need to be honest with yourself and identify situations were you are doing things to draw a reaction from her.
The photo on the table is a perfect example of this... you present it like you are doing her a favour - but in reality it is (subconscious desperation) to trigger a response from her. At this very early stage this is key - If you are doing ANYTHING to provoke an action or response from her then just stop - because that route is a bottomless pit.
The route you will be taking is one for yourself and there is no quick resolution to this situation at all.
It [censored], and its going to hurt and its horrible - BUT in 6 months time - things will seem different.
Lets just get you through this period first of all.
