Creating and breaking the barriers to the opposite sex. A barrier is different from a boundary, a barrier is a hurdle to flirting, a boundary is the limitation. It's like having a car and not turning on the engine (barrier) as opposed to driving writhing the speed limit (boundary).
Sometime the peeps here have not opened the garage door or even sat in the drivers seat for a long time even if the co driver is now in another car.
We all have bad driving habits to unlearn but generally here DB tools create better drivers.
Flirting step 1 comfort with eye contact. I have stopped making eye contact with just about every guy I am attracted to. In fact this creates problems, it's not shyness but guilt or shame. Unworthiness.
Not useful.
So I am practicing eye contact. If others want to try it then there are YouTube practice posts for maintaining eye contact. To begin with it was weird and felt like forever even though it's only 10 sec. That's only the beginning. Eye contact isn't creepy staring it's done with a twinkle. And with men then holding eye contact has to be a minimum of 10 secs in flirting.
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Completely unrelated I have started to do compound muscle exercises in the gym. Gosh my pull ups are pathetic.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
