Do not let her take your children our of the country. With her money she could possibly never come back very easily. Why do you need a lawyer to draw up a 50 50 childcare agreement? Cut and dried so just do it. Lawyers are needed when the arrangements are so far out of whack and no one will budge. The last thing in the world either of you need is a lawyer. Lawyers win and everyone else loses.
You should give in to her childcare requests. Tell her that you will agree to a 50/50 custody split and if her lawyers draws up a 100% equal contract then you will get a lawyer to review it to make sure it is fair. The harassing comments and calling the police are not Dbing. You are trying to hold on and control her. By all means record everything but don't tell her you are recording.
You don't need a legal team. Whatever country you are in there are forums and online resources for your situation where you can learn everything you need to know. Just lookup divorce men forum etc.
Me:43 Wife:35 Married:9 yrs Together:11 yrs Children: B7, G4 , G2 DB & DR bought and in the mail Bomb drop: 05/05/18 EA: Suspected but no proof Status: not getting divorced but not piecing yet
