You are not going to be able to stop her from moving out, so let her go.

What are your 180's, stop trying to control her.

So money is tight - I have been there.
What are you going to do about that?

If you are going to have your kids 50/50 whats that going to look like?
How are you going to be the BEST DAD that you can be?

Me-70, D37,S36