Yes Artista...that's exactly what I think she is struggling with. She sees me being all the things she wanted me to be back then. It annoys her it seems...at least on the surface level. It annoys her even more that other women are benefitting. But yes, it is always during the course of a conversation that I mention something like making dinner for Mary or going to see a band I don't necessarily care for that seems to get WAW in a snit. But she has also said things like she is so proud of me that I am a better man, etc. But yes, actions speak louder than words. I am what I am now and I'm proud of it...I am not the guy she walked out on because even I would have left him... and I told her that. I hate thinking of how closed minded I used to be, it is not a proud moment for me and I hate my old self. But the best revenge I can pay that part of me is to never be him again
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
