If it is any comfort I heard all of those quotes verbatim in 2016 and 2017
She feels differently in 2018 but is still unsure
So yes your w says and feels all those things today but it can change
That is why this is a marathon
Glad she is keeping it together in front of the kids
My w was not able to do that
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving