I will add to the awesome points that LW just did and what my particular preferences are generally. Yes, 'attractive' women from what the Western world tells us have to look a certain way. And because men are so heavily socialized that way, that initially gets our interest, but if there is no substance behind the looks, doesn't matter. If one is just looking for sex, then there is no reason to worry about substance.
What is the most attractive thing to me is vibrant confidence. I would date a woman who exudes that confidence in how she carries herself and how she has her own style and appearance over a traditionally 'attractive woman'. Confidence, not arrogance or being egotistical, is one that gets me the most and is the most endearing quality I find. I've heard it also goes the same way for men.
But yeh. Gain that confidence and swagger Nicole! You'll be unstoppable.
