A little freaked out at the moment.

W just called and the following ensued:

W: I just wanted to let you know I called a couple of attorneys today.

Me: Ok, I appreciate you letting me know. What is your plan?

W: I don't know yet. I just need to get something moving.

Me: I feel your frustration.

W: I didn't make an appointment, but felt I needed to let you know.

Me: Thank you. Have things changed?

W: What do you mean?

Me: We had agreed to go to mediation first and hopefully not involve lawyers.

W: You seem to be dragging and holding everything up. I need to move on.

Me: I haven't been holding anything up. If you want to schedule a mediation appt, please let me know when it is.

W: No one will call me back. I don't think there is a good one here in our city.

Me: Seems strange that no one would want to schedule us in.

W: I know right!

Me: You know how I feel, that I don't want to divorce, but I will not stand in your way. I don't know why you would want to involve attorneys and pay them all a bunch of money that neither of us have.

W: I'm just done.

Me: As I said, I feel your frustration. What do you want to do?

W: I don't know. I just have to do something. I'll let you know and I have to go for now.


WHAT do I do with this????????????????????????


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18