i am thinking she cancels Saturday... but i hope she doesn't...
She may. Facing up to the past is way too much for some. I know that if i was in IH's shoes, with my W, I can almost guarantee she wouldn't be comfortable being around people that knew us as a "couple". Mainly because she would be afraid of the judgments and questions, etc.
IH your history kind of works against you here. However, just because she doesn't call it a "date" doesn't mean it isn't one. The night you spent at her place a few weeks back was a "date", regardless of how she wanted to categorize it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018