I told WW sorry I couldn't hang out with you last night but it seems like your mad about it. She says we could have still talked but you didn't come home til 9:30 (I was GAL) and that she wasn't mad. I told her I didn't know if she'd be home and that I had to stand up for what I think is right (no hanging out w/ OM still around).
I asked if she was going to "go with her gut" for the rest of her life (this is her excuse for jumping from me to OM). She said something about not planning things out, I asked if she was going to be home tonight. She said no, I said that sounds like you planned that out. I feel deceived, but didn't say that.
Now, this morning she texts me saying "It's fine u didn't wanna hangout last night. Don't worry about it". Well, yea, we discussed that earlier.
Then she texts again about another thing, then texts "??", then my name with a "...".
I think she is stomping her feet at not getting me to do what she wanted.
Advice or thoughts?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
