[quote=Joseph9
Maybe I am wrong but it is what I observe based on what you type. Again really ask yourself if seeing her and having these interactions with her stir things up, and stops your forward progress or do they help you?[/quote]

you are not wrong. When the shoe was on the other foot last week, and I was the one accomplishing "Going Dark" with her, i was in a much better spot.

I am well further along the detachment path, but not nearly at the end of it.

I still feel as though yesterdays texts diffused some tension, but its back into the shadows for me.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
-----------------------------------------------------
2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds