Arsh, it's difficult to frame any aspect of your husband's move to his new apartment in a positive light. It's just a terribly sad and painful experience to watch the man that you loved all these years pack up and move out while you and the kids are left behind. I remember it well when my husband left both times. I couldn't believe it was real. I was shocked and almost in denial and hysterical. Those two events were two of the most traumatic in my life. I hope in your case it will lead to the beginning of a path towards healing and reconciliation for you and your husband, but the act of him physically moving out is hard to endure. I hope it passes quickly for you and you some friends or someone to visit you in those first days alone. I know if I and others survived you will too, but it's still just very sad.
