OK, the cheeseless tunnel reference is in regard to mice in a maze trying to find the cheese. The cheese is positive thing, but going down tunnels that doesn't lead to the cheese is a bad thing.

OK, if I read your text messages as trying to determine where they slept, then you know STBXW did too. Whether rightly or wrongly. That's why she sent the pic, to prove to you again that he slept there. Perception is greater than reality sometimes. So maybe I was wrong and your first text was genuine, the fact that it could even be questioned works against you.

Sorry, I see you glossed over my "watching her through the window like a hawk" point. Ask yourself this, would an attached or detached OK do that?

Not trying to hurt you at all OK, trying to help. No offense, but you haven't always, in the heat of the moment, been honest about your motivations. It appeared from your recent posts that OM and STBXW picking up your S3 at your brother's house had an effect on you. Whether that is true or not, that is what it appeared to be.

Hang in there man, yes I see definite improvements in you, but you have not reached Valhalla.

(By the way, the reason I know about Valhalla is a song by the 80s band White Lion, The Road To Valhalla. As you can see that I am a big 80s rock fan!)

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018