So things got worse today, much worse.
W has a lot of funds after inheriting from her late Mother - my finances aren’t great as I’ve had cancer three times in the last ten years and right now, despite having had free advice from a family friend who is a lawyer, I don’t have the funds to officially engage a legal team
Since my W returned home at the weekend she has repeatedly asked for me to engage in conversation about our long term arrangements for our children- she has had advice from her lawyer
I have repeatedly said that I am not prepared to engage in such discussion without my having a lawyer present.
This morning she repeatedly harassed me to have the conversation and I kept saying no, that I was recording the conversation and that I felt harassed by her and vulnerable
I took the kids to school and came home, once again she came into the MBR and wanted to discuss long term childcare
Once again I told her I was recording the conversation and that she was harassing me and said I was reasonably asking her to go away as I felt harassed
She continued, so I said if you don’t leave me alone I will call the police.
She persisted, so I called the non emergency police line and told them what had been happening.
They are coming to interview me tomorrow.


Me:48 W:43, Kids:S19, S17, S10, S8
M:10 years
BD:06-18-2018