Thanks guys. Well I figured o had nothing to lose. She seemed to want to make it clear that Saturday was not a romantic date. I basically went with the idea that it is what it is and what I'm not labeling it. As far as the comment about saying hi to Mary, I think that was in repsonse to me leaving...almost like she was asking if I was leaving to go to Mary's. That's the impression I got from the remark.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
