I just don't see any good coming from contacting her. You can't have a "normal" relationship with her, and when you've tried to have a friendly conversation.....it results in working on your mind regardless of the direction it takes. Even with sending pictures, sooner or later there will be something you'll see that will irk you.
As for how to get your thoughts on other things, I encourage you to watch youtube or google whatever subject may be of interest.
Sandi,
Im not looking for normal, just looking for tolerable. If some false niceties are what it takes to achieve that, I can mask up and play the game too.
I am not brooding or dwelling on it. so i feel pretty good about how things went.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
