Good point N.....I was thinking about this earlier today as I was getting ready for work. I think my EW having a BF might be impacting me some as well.
Totally know that feeling. My XH went straight from me to someone else and I found out later he'd been seeing her while we were still married. I mean literally 2 weeks to the day after our D was final, he was moving 1600 miles away from the only town he'd ever lived in all his life, to start a new life with her. While I had NO desire to date or keep any kind of company with a man when he first left, when I finally got over the shock, it did hurt to know that he'd moved on to someone else so quickly while I was struggling to even fully understand what went down. It was like OMG...I have to find someone. But then I got into the GAL and fortunately for me, work was SUPER busy at that time, so that helped me to refocus a tad.
I think neffer made a great point though.....just enjoy the ride, so to speak.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
