I think my wife is having a midlife crisis affair

[Gordie]

Definitely read the books

Filled with tons of awesome info

Live coaching has helped me figure out how to apply the techniques and when

Bottom line is do what works and stop what does not

Going dark and LRT may be right for you

But maybe not given your specifics

Maybe you act like a friendly neighbor who is awesome and independent and loving life without a partner

But in that case you still keep your distance

Your w feels like she knows you completely and now wants something new

So instead of being your boring and predictable self

Part of distancing is creating some mystery and surprise

Get a haircut that is different from what you have ever done

Buy new and different and stylish clothes

Start going out without telling her where you are going

Stop being depressed and moody and start being happy and cheerful

All of these above require no words

Your actions will speak volumes

That you are a confident and strong guy

Who will be alright no matter what she does

And that is the truth even if you do not feel like it today

Fake it until you make it

I have been at this for two years

And my w never left