Re anxiety - my BD was a few weeks ago and since then I’ve had anxiety attacks (waking up 2-5 am and being unable to get back to sleep, with a fast heart rate and endless racing featful thoughts) I’ve been reading up on breathing techniques, which I’ve found very helpful indeed. Apparently it’s physiologically impossible to BBE breathing properly and to be anxious at the same time.
It can be as simple as : Sit up straight and breathe in through your nose for about 3 seconds Hold the breath for 3 seconds Breathe out slowly as if you were slowing blowing up a balloon and gently close your eyes Breathe normally for a few seconds Repeat 4 times
You should notice a wave of calmness passing through your head
Best of luck
Me:48 W:43, Kids:S19, S17, S10, S8 M:10 years BD:06-18-2018