waw maybe #3

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Updating:

My L finally heard back from W's L and set a date july 26th for a conference with all 4 of us. Within 1 hour I get a call back that the date has been switced to Aug. 13th... Finally going to see what we can get done. All is good and I am peace with this proceeding forward.

W went to a concert last night, an employee appreciation day from her job, she couldnt wait to tell me all about it. It was all music from the 80's and she said she would love to see them again. She looked happy, I didnt focus on her as I did just validating. Since the date has been made W has been very friendy, but nothing more than a friendly neighbor. Thank you to the vets that responded to my thread early on, it made all the difference.

I have been GAL as much as possible and it really has created a lot of opportunities to meet new people and also becoma more active. The social club is just great! I was asked to run a Texas Hold 'em tournament and i agreed to. They need help figuring out prices and prizes. It is going to be a bbq and card night, looking forward to it. Right after I was asked to run the tourny several ladies asked me if we need help cooking, I said of course, the more the merrier.

Jouraling:
I have made so many new friends and there have been a few ladies that have approached me about dating. My responses have been that I am still married and it would not be fair to all involved if we were to date. Not to say we didnt have a great time hanging out but just not ready to go on an official date.

Still have not scheduled the white water rafting but I really want to before the summer is over.

Went to a free outdoor concert this past Tuesday, music wasnt the greatest but the fireworks where just great.

Thurday went to the social club, my favorite bartender was working and she seems to like me. She is 61 years old and is really funny and great to hang out with. So during her time working I asked if she played darts she said no, so I said come on we will play next. We played two guys at the bar and shockingly we won, she said that was the first time she ever won at darts, I said me too...lol. Anyway it was a lot of laughs.

Things are going great I am really starting to enjoy life again, as I write this I am trying to get myself motivated to run a quick 4 miler...ugh... motivation... its really hard sometimes.