When W and I were together, I wrote a song for her. I told her that one day I would get it played on a particular radio station. After W left, I contacted the radio station and they said they would play it.
I knew when it was going to be played. W refused to listen to it on the radio back in the family home with the kids & I. W went off to listen in the car. The kids were amazed and the DJ said it was dedicated to them. W missed that amazing moment seeing the kids so, so happy. W returned to collect the kids, she seemed excited and delighted and said she was proud of me. That was on 16.06.2018.
The best for the kids and I would be to reunite our family with W. It would help to repair all the hurt feelings and learn from past mistakes. I would give anything for W to give us a chance.
The next big challenge for me will be when W returns to collect the rest of her things from the house in the next few days. It will be the first time she has been into the house since she left. I have done some jobs to make it look much better. It's a lot better than where she is now living. She will take some furniture. To me it will seem that she is breaking up our home and she is unlikely to ever go into the house ever again. I don't know how I should be with her about it. Anyone have any ideas?