Oooohhh that might not be.......safe. for me. Still dealing with anger issues.
I will try the "Dehumanize" technique Vanilla mentioned.
I have formulated a Caricature of her in my head as a bobble head toy with a bad "I need to speak to the manager" haircut and a vapid look on her face.
Ill try and stick with that.
Using your method might be detrimental to OM's health if i dwell in that area too long.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds