Can I really do this #4

[Dtrmned]

Thanks AS.
I knew right when I let it come out that the temp check was a set back for me. Whether it was for her or not does not matter. It was just me knowing that I let it happen and I should have known and done better.
AND I appreciate the insight on validating her desires but re-iterating that these are her plans/choices and that I am committed to our marriage. I have done well on that. She says I am dragging my feet, but there is nothing I am dragging on since she moves nothing forward.