I disagree - I think 6 months away is a little bit too far away to make plans with somebody you've only started dating - especially when she's so ambivalent. If you can wait another month before submitting a name I would.
See, that is what I like about this board, we all think differently. I totally get what you are saying and I totally get what Don said about waiting, but I just know if it were me and I was even being considered, I would want to know ASAP, but then again, I'm a planner, so that is on me.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids