3 years pieced and still a work in progress!

[kiro]

Maika, I found a lot of similarities between your story and my sitch.

I find it curious that the BD came only 6 months after getting your new home after she was very excited while searching for a home. But I also found many similarities with my W. I felt that during our last year of MR before BD, she had pretty much achieved all her dreams. She got everything she ever wanted. She had the nice house, the kids, successful husband, money, the luxury car she always dreamed of, etc. So, instead of being grateful for everything she had, she instead felt bored and that she needed to move on to a new life. It's sad, but that's really what it seems to me.

My W is also very stubborn and prideful. And she has low self esteem and doesn't know how to communicate openly.

I actually really like how you are approaching your situation. I learned a lot from reading your last 2 posts here (the only ones I have read).