Can I really do this #4

[Dtrmned]

Just need some input today.

I Know the last post was very long and had a bunch of information from several different issues in it.

Questions:

1) Do we now, and how do we tell our son?

2) Is my W just blowing smoke? Cake eating? Both or something different?

3) Do I need to detach more by not interacting with her more and more?

4) How do I handle the accusations, proclamations, and seemingly endless frustrating conversations than end up in her stating she is moving forward and then nothing ever happening?