Originally Posted by Gordie
Trevor

I like job s suggestion of doing nothing

You and your son like your home

So why leave

If you move out for the summer

Your home may become party central for your wife

In a very bad way

Or all your things may get trashed

Or you may find them gone

I would not risk that

And it may have legal implications for you

Consult with a L before relocating


Yeah, this is a tough one but that's what I'm afraid of: the party time. Plus, it just got more complicated by the fact that my wife is ill (unrelated--took her to the ER last night). She's fine and back home, but I'm not sure I want to be leaving and paving the way for the other guy swoop in as the "loving caretaker" while she's on antibiotics and getting over her illness.