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[jaylove]

Thanks for your input May

We also have a family holiday booked in two weeks abroad
She has been told that she cannot take our children without my permission- today she asked if she could go with my brother
Being that we now have to live together in the family home until childcare agreements have been made, my view is that considering she has repeatedly said that the main thing is to consider what’s best for our children (which I wholeheartedly agree with, but so far the discussions we’ve had don’t seem to indicate that’s what she really thinks) if we’re toing to have to love together at home, for our children the best holiday would be with their Mum and Dad with them. I also feel if I agree to let my brother go with her, that’s somehow enabling her ?
Any advice please DB-ers!

I guess for me a true 180 in this case would be to say go ahead, take the boys