mtb, I think the 50/50 custody thing is the play here. She is staying in touch with/about the kids whenever she remember to so that later (in her mind) she can say she tried. We all know that is laughable but since she is still deep in her fantasy can convince herself that it is true. In fact you know she is telling other people "mtb is keeping me from my kids", She is a habitual liar and will continue to lie about everything you confront her about.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018