So, this person is not your W. It's like an alien took over her body and has hijacked it for a while. Don't try to reason or communicate with the alien. You are from different planets and do not speak the same language. And you're right, her behavior does seem very MLC. You have to keep living your best life, and let her spiral out of control. You can only control you.
As far as comparing and FB and all that, get the hell off social media. 1) it's bad for our brains even when life isn't a mess and has been shown to lead to depression and anxiety, and 2) you will eat yourself alive with comparisons when you ARE feeling a mess. I got off FB for a while when this all started and it was one of the best things I could do. Unless you're using it as a way to connect with others so you can GAL, get off of it.
