OK - It is part of the process. My scales got tipped some in everyone of the scenarios below.
- When she told me she was ready to move forward with D
- When we stood in front of judge and it was final.
- When she told me she had a BF.
- When she told me she was going to introduce my kids to her BF.
I can tell you my scales were tipped less and less each time something happened. The only thing left for me now is for her to tell me she is getting married. Outside of that I don't think there is much left with regards to her. Each time it just gets a little easier.