She just came back home, rather glum, saying that her lawyer advised until we have a childcare arrangement agreed, she can’t get a place and move out with the kids. She is talking about a 50/50 custody agreement anyway.

So here’s the question for you experienced dB-ers:
It’s clear the view here is that I should be in the MBR - however on her discharge from
Hospital I let her take it.
So now, asking that I have it back is really like me putting gas on a fire.
Should I hold off for a few days?
Very tricky sitch for me


Me:48 W:43, Kids:S19, S17, S10, S8
M:10 years
BD:06-18-2018