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[jaylove]

David - my W just came home after having gone to see some houses to rent. She was told by her solicitor that until
An agreed childcare arrangement was in place, she couldn’t really rent somewhere with room for our children, clearly she doesn’t want to move out on her own as that could be viewed as abandoning our children. So it does seem like your W is on the wrong side of U.K. law as she stands now