Good job MTB, glad you stuck to your guns on not taking the kids to a bar! Not just because of the whole bar thing, but because you are NOT her kid taxi service either. Great job sticking to your guns, and for allowing her access to the kids while not kowtowing to her demands. You handled it all perfectly.
Thank you, AS. I am glad to hear this. After these confrontations, I always feel uneasy. Never sure if I did the right thing or not. It's weird. I know what I need to do, but after talking with her I always have these feelings of self doubt and second guessing myself. Something I need to work on I guess. But it makes me feel better and more confident when the vets here agree with how I handled a situation...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019