Still Moving (Saying ILY Pt 7)

[mtb1981]

She also said during the call in the previous post that she would call the kids before bedtime to tell them good night. Told them also when she talked to them. She asked when they would be going to bed and I told her 9. She sais she would call between 8 and 9, so I maade sure to have my phone with me during this time.She never called, so we all went to bed. I wake up this morning to 7 missed calls starting at around 9:30 and a text saying ,"So why can't you answer when you knew I was going to call". I am not going to respond to her, although part of me wants to tell her that I was waiting for her to call between 8 and 9 like she said, but she didn't. It would just start a pointless argument and give her the attention she craves. She also needs to understand that I am not her bitchboy that waits around for her to call. If the call was so important to her, she could have made it during the hour timeframe she said she would call...

After talking to her yesterday, I could tell she is still deep in her fantasy. A lot of gaslighting and several of her go to statements to try to trigger me that I didn't fall for. She did steer me in the direction of talking about her accusations and her denial of them, but I caught myself quickly and got back on track. She is still implementing a lot of tactics to try to keep me attached, I assume it will be another week or so before I hear from her again. I've picked up on the pattern. She pokes her head in and makes contact. I assume to see how I will respond and if she still has any control. Then she will ghost me for a week or two before doing the same thing again...